Your Kids & Smoking

It would be a long stretch for anyone to say that they do not know nowadays the negative effect on health that smoking has. The link of smoking to lung cancer and heart disease is well documented as is the severity of nicotine addiction and its hold onto the addicted individual. While it might have been true thirty years ago, I doubt if there is a person in the western world that has not been warned about the dangers of smoking, including your children. The sad fact is that the thousands of young people that pick up the habit of smoking every year prove that merely knowing the truth is not enough to ebb the tide of new smokers.

If you are a parent that smokes, you need to know that as long as you continue to light up, your children will be twice as likely to smoke as the children of non smokers, and even if you quit now, depending on how long your children were exposed to your habit could greatly impact their decision to take up the habit or not.

Parents who so not smoke or have never smoked need to understand that just because the temptation is not in the home does not mean that it is absent from your children’s life. Peer pressure to seem cool is as strong today as it was when we were kids and often the atmosphere of advancement through the ages is at a much faster pace than when we were younger. Our children are being faced to make many more choices at a much younger age than in previous generations.

Communicating about the choice of smoking and the effects that this choice will have on your children’s lives should be an open discussion, and understanding that teenage rebellion and the chasing of forbidden pleasures is still very much a part of growing up will allow parents to realistically deal with the challenge of supporting your children by trying to help them make the best lifestyle choices for their future while not pushing them into a cycle of rebellion on accident.

If you do find out that your child has experimented with cigarette or other forms of tobacco use, try to approach the problem as a health issue and not necessarily as one of just bad behavior or failure to follow instruction. While personal feelings of disrespect are sure to play a role, the serious impact on the future of anyone who chooses to smoke should be the major consideration when approaching this issue. Your children’s life depends on it.